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Cindy J. Boyer Condolence September 9, 2013

To the loving parents of baby Hayden,

I'm very sorry to read of the tragic loss of your precious, beloved, sweet baby boy Hayden, and I want to offer my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I hope that you will find some comfort in these verses.

Acts 24:15 promises, “that there is going to be a resurrection.” Many tragic, unexpected deaths are due to what the Bible calls, "time and unforeseen occurrence that befall them all." - Ecclesiastes 9:11b

 Our loving God doesn’t cause sad things to happen to our loved ones, as with serious health problems, as James 1:13 helps us to understand, ‘When under trial, let no one say: “I am being tried by God.’ For with evil things God cannot be tried nor does he himself try anyone.’”

2 Corinthians 1:3, 4 speaks of God as “the God of all comfort who comforts us in all our tribulation.” 1 Peter 5:7 lets us know that we can “throw all our anxiety upon (God), because he cares.” And Isaiah 65:17b tells us that the former things will not be called to mind, neither will they come up into the heart.” - Thus the heartbreak that we experience now, won’t even be remembered after Jehovah God resurrects our loved ones; thereby undoing the sad effects of death and the pain being separated from them brings.

Revelation 21:4 promises, “And (God) will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” - Just imagine -a world with no tears of sorrow, no pain, and no death! And no sickness of any kind as Isaiah 33:24 promises, “no resident will say: ‘I am sick.’”

Loved ones will be resurrected, and welcomed back to life by loving family and friends right here on the earth in the midst of peaceful, beautiful, paradise conditions, as Psalms 37:10, 11, 29 tell about, “And just a little while longer, and the wicked one will be no more; and you will certainly give attention to his place, and he will not be. But the meek ones themselves will possess the earth, and they will indeed find their exquisite delight in the abundance of peace. The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it.” - We can have the opportunity to live together forever in perfect peace, health, and happiness with our loved ones!

 Jesus gave us hope of a time when all suffering will end. He taught his followers to pray: “Our Father in the heavens, . . . Let your Kingdom come. Let your will take place, as in heaven, also upon earth.” - Matthew 6:9, 10 - When God’s Kingdom comes, there will be no more suffering or death on the earth, just as there is no suffering or death in heaven!

I hope that you will find comfort in your memories, perhaps by looking at pictures. And I hope that these and other verses will bring you comfort, peace, and hope. Romans 15:4 tells us, "For all the things that were written aforetime were written for our instruction, that through our endurance and through the comfort from the Scriptures we might have hope.

And will you please look at the web site, www.jw.org as it offers much comfort that is solidly based on God’s Word the Bible, and it shares what has helped others to cope with their grief. If you decide to look at the site, when on the web site, please click on publications at the top of the page, then under magazines on the left click on ‘magazines’ and in Display box to the right where it says ‘latest‘; scroll to 2011 and click on search, and then please ‘scroll down 3 rows‘, and click on the 'PDF' format for "Coping With the Loss of a Loved One" found in the April Awake; and you’ll be able to open this magazine to read the article in its entirety. Three subjects are: "An Almost Unbearable Loss" "Coming to Terms With Death" and "Help for Those Who Grieve" This is one of the most comforting magazines that I've read and I hope you will read this article and find some comfort in what has helped others to cope with their overwhelming losses. Currently the article, "Why is there so much suffering? When will it end?" is on the main page of the web site.

Take care,

                                                                                                                               Sincerely Yours,

                                                                                                                                Cindy Boyer

mom 2 Waylon Kitchens Thinkin of you Hayden March 10, 2010

            Have a beautiful celebration in Heaven!!!

Becky Adams passerbye March 12, 2009
my heart goes out to you and your family. i too lost a child (grandson 3yrs of age Trenton Adams) they both are now Gods little angels
Jessica Cruz With all my heart. March 18, 2008
My heart goes out to you Jame in this very difficult time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You.
Terry~mom of baby Faith May 19, 2007

 Hayden sending you a lady bug!! Love you mom!!

Terry-mom of babyFaith Thinking of you angel April 29, 2007

jacobs mum thinking of you April 29, 2007

Dear Little Hayden's family

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Hayden


Go ahead and mention my child
The one that died,
You know
Don't worry about hurting me further
The depth of my pain doesn't show.

Don't worry about making me cry
I'm already crying inside
Help me to heal by releasing
The tears that I try to hide.

I'm hurt when you just keep silent
Pretending it doesn't exist
I'd rather you'd mention my child
Knowing that he has been missed.

You asked me how I'm doing.
I say "Pretty good" or "fine"
But healing is something on-going
I feel it will take a lifetime.
By Elizabeth Dent

with love Jacob's Mum


^i^Our Aussie Angel

Terry-mom of baby Faith Teddy bear April 26, 2007

Terry-Mom of BabyFaith Loss of words April 16, 2007
Shaye Creamer ^i^Mack's Mom Imprints on Our Heart April 11, 2007

I will share all my joys, memories, and all my toys.. from learning to roll over, tasting the baby lotion "Oh Mom, this pink lotion is so yummy! Let me hold it.. see I got a good grip!"after a bath, "boy that fist is good~is it time to eat yet??!", "hey, I can hold my rattle for 10 minutes~ dang that bonk on the head hurt, but don't take it~ I'll learn to shake it!", "Look Mom, I'm taking flying lessons!!", "Hey, I'm a boy! I'm Mack!  what am I doing in this pink basket?! I want my bath!", "Can I get cleaned up and changed here? I think it's nap time." remember the good memories....
I LOVE YOU!! Remember the sweet memories of your precious baby boy! I will always be here and share mine with you to help ease the pain and make you smile, even if just for a while! Our precious babies, the pot of gold at the end of our rainbow (Mack took the photo (published) in Holy Trinity, AL (on a red mud road and caught an Angel flying out of the rainbow!)
God Bless YOU!

Always, Shaye, Mack's Mom Forever

"Death does not end a Love/relationship,
Just how we communicate."

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